Judge every opportunity as a business transaction. If the person or opportunity helps you โ It can be qualified as an ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐๐ญ. If the person or opportunity cannot help you โ It is a ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ.
๐๐ก๐ ๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐๐ โ Some liabilities are assets because they teach you a lesson, and some assets are a liability in disguise. You will only learn this with experience.
I do not believe in money; I do believe in ๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ. And as all others are you as well. Please treat the other versions of you in the following context:
My ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ฌ โ These as the friends that I know will never take away my energy, always supply me with more. They will never ask for my money and will never hurt my feelings on purpose. These are friends for life.
My ๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ฌ โ These are my crab friends, another word could be unaware or unconscious they are still ignorant about what they are. You are them, and they do not see that because they keep stealing your energy, keep distracting you from what you want to do. They bring you down every moment they can do so, and they are not aware that they are doing it. Do not feel any resentment of any kind against them as they are trying to help you the best way they know how to, they simply do not know what they are doing to you.
My ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ฌ โ These are the friends that teach you the harshest lessons, these are the people that are your coaches, your mentors, your family (even though they could fall in the ignorant category at certain times ). They love you, but they are honest with you and they want you to succeed. Once you reach the level of your best friends, then you can make them your true friends.
This system has a gray area as well, if your true friend has a bad night and is requesting attention, they might fall in the category of an ignorant friend. Or maybe they attended an amazing life-changing moment, and they could become a best friendโฆ ๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐จ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ, ๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ. ๐ ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐, ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง ๐๐ญ ๐๐๐ซ๐ญ๐๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ.