Why we need goals

𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗱𝗼 𝘄𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗴𝗼𝗮𝗹𝘀, 𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝘄𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗲𝗻𝗷𝗼𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁?

Some people teach you that you need to make goals and do everything you can to pass your goals and then, and only then you can be happy. This is normally how that road looks like: Get that diploma, then get that job, then get that woman/man/feel free to fill in, get that car, get that house, get that pet, get the child, get the pension, congrats, you had a great life and you reached your goals.

It is a never-ending cycle that does not make you happy, it keeps making you addicted and chasing happiness, and once you reach the goals, you have a brief sense of happiness, and then society dictates the next goal you have to pursue.

Then I learned from many spiritual teachers I should enjoy the 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁, 𝗯𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘄. To become love itself with the space that you are occupying with your physical body, and the love and compassion you radiate with your non-physical awareness. 

Since just before the Corona Virus, I have been doing just that, I have no income except for the government aid which many of my colleagues and fellow entrepreneurs are very grateful for… And 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗼𝗳 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗺𝘆 𝗳𝘂𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲, I am just enjoying my natural presence in this world. Growing like all of us are doing in their way… but what is next?

In the spirit of compassion and love, I decided to share my world views briefly with the rest of you, this was something I used to be ashamed about because I did not want to hurt anyone’s feelings, then I realized about four months ago that my world views are quite awesome and it is not bad to be 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗹𝗹𝗲𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘁𝘂𝘀 𝗾𝘂𝗼, because I believe that the current social system we created over generations is not 𝗯𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗳𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗼𝗳 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗱. We are not supposed to 𝒉𝒖𝒓𝒕 each other, we are supposed 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿.

We are not supposed to harm another physically if that person is not giving you what you want, you are either 𝘀𝘂𝗽𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 “𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁” 𝗼𝗿 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 “𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴” 𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝗮𝘆𝗯𝗲, 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗺𝗮𝘆𝗯𝗲 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗮 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗺𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 and be 𝒐𝒑𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒔𝒆𝒍𝒇 to double-check if you could possibly be wrong.

𝑵𝒐𝒘, 𝒎𝒚 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒔𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒘𝒂𝒚 of looking at goal setting, even when you feel at loss and are uncertain about your future. It will combine your spiritual presence and the happiness that comes with it together with a goal for where you want to experience the next thing on your journey.

This tool, found in my journey of personal growth and based on the system of Mindvalley.com is the following:

As you make a goal for the future, make it the 𝒎𝒐𝒔𝒕 𝒖𝒏𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒃𝒍𝒆 𝒈𝒐𝒂𝒍 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒆. This means that you create a goal that is so unbelievable for most people to imagine, it only exists in your mind.

And in doing so, you leverage the power of your present situation and your willpower to keep on learning to 𝒑𝒖𝒔𝒉 you towards that goal using the 𝒇𝒖𝒆𝒍 of your love, compassion, gratitude, and being happy in the now.

And just like a rocket breaking free from earth gravity, there will a tipping point where, 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒂𝒅 𝒐𝒇 𝒑𝒖𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒑𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒈𝒐. And this is the moment where you will know that whatever goal you imagined in your mind, you do not have to “work” towards it anymore. I will start attracting you like a magnet and will instead start to pull you.

If you are doing everything to reach your goal with kindness in your heart then 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒏𝒋𝒐𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒋𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒏𝒆𝒚 𝒕𝒐𝒘𝒂𝒓𝒅𝒔 𝒊𝒕, and in enjoying the journey your goal will start to attract you because it loves to be found by you as much as you like to be found by it.

I made peace of my current situation, instead of worrying about the future I decide to be happy in the now, and allow myself to be pulled towards the goals that I have to reach my ultimate vision:

To create a planet that is compassionate, fully optimized for efficiency, and allows for every person to express themselves in whichever way they want without being judged or harming another living thing. 𝑺𝒊𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒖𝒔, 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒏𝒆. 𝑨𝒏𝒅 𝒂 𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖, 𝑰𝒔 𝒂 𝒔𝒕𝒓𝒐𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒓 𝒖𝒔.

It does not matter if I can reach the goal or not, as attaching yourself to outcomes will most of the time disappoint you, just know you are contributing is good enough, 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒍𝒊𝒌𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒓𝒔 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒖𝒔, 𝒘𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒆 𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒖𝒕𝒖𝒓𝒆 𝒈𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔.

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Om Shanti Shanti Shanti (I wish you peace, happiness, and joy) Have an awesome day!

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